Because I Can: January 2006 Archives

For the record:

a.) I am not a prude. I can be prudish at times. b.) Please use some common sense and know if you are a person who reads here regularly I am not talking about you. c.) If you read something that offends your senses and sends you into an outrage then maybe I am talking to you and you need to take a long hard look at yourself. You can only grow when you face your short comings and actively choose to make a change in yourself for the better. d.) There are some seriously sick people in this world who have no idea they are sick.

Random Posts I have Started Over The Past 6 Months but never moved from Draft to Publish: 1. Blahgers who like to tell journalists how and when to post and make up rules so that if you do not follow their rules they won't "evah come back." Goodbye. Please don't come back. I don't like threats or being made to feel as if I am your hostage. 2. Anonynmous commenters have no balls, love to dish shit but are not adult enough to pick up the spoon and eat their fair share in return. 3. Women who see nothing wrong with letting their small children witness the birth of their new siblings. No child should have to witness the spread eagled, knees around your ears, grewsome display of childbirth. It is no damn petting zoo. It can be very traumatizing. I hope all of your little boys do not grow up with Frued's complex issues with his mother. 4. Yes, all children are curious about any given subject on any given day but there is this thing called age appropriate answers by parents to children with questions about their genitals, sex and where babies come from. At the age of 3 - 10 there is a thing as TMI!!!! These children do not need to know about orgasms, masturbation, nor how good it would feel to let someone else rub their private bits. Where is this world going? Why do people think it is amusing that a child know far more than he should? 5. Online journals are the same as someone's home. If you are invited in to have a look (as journals are public it is an invite to look-see) you really should use your manners and not be mean to people, argue with other commenters or dishout random assvice. It is one thing to know the journalist and know you are welcome to speak your mind. It is another to pull a terrorists strike and leave your drivel and hate spread across someone else's door. 6. Blahgers who refer to their children with derogatory nicknames or those names that lend an air of evil. I find that the tone being used is often the more offensive. How can a parent think it is continually funny to disrespect, degrade and humilate the innocence of their child, their own living breathing flesh and blood, with their own written words? 7. You don't know if you are a good mother? You garner sympathy from readers by exposing the mess in your head? You sicken me to the very pit of my stomach. It has been my experience if you do not know you are a good mother (a mother that has done her very best to give her children a loving, moral and solid foundation to grown upon) you probably are not a good mother. I will not blow smoke up your ass to make you feel good. Get your shit together and do right by your children. It is too late to think that once they are in this world that maybe you should not have had them. Grow up and grow a pair. 8. Your husband doesn't give in to your demands all the time? You withhold sex and physical loving to get what you want. F*ck you, sister. Your husband is an adult. He is not your slave, your handmaid, your plaything or any number of other adjectives such as doormat, lapdog and punching bag. To withhold physical intimacy as a leverage to get him to do something he doesn't want to do is the most disgusting, pathetic, childish tactic known to mankind. You should so be ashamed but you won't be because people like you have no shame. 9. That goes for you men bashers as well. It is one thing to say things in a comedic light, as all of us women are prone to doing at times, but it is another to continually bash men and leave them lower than dog shit on a curb every single day. 10. Any or all of these can be directed pointedly at men. It is not just women who are screwed up. 11. When visiting a journal or blahg and finding yourself offended, repeatedly, click the X and never go back. It is just that simple. 12. I really don't care if you don't agree with my point of view. When you pay for my webspace, as I do, I do not use a free service, you can censor me and my words. 13. I do not discuss politics and religion in open forums. I find it leads to more arguements than educated discussions. Southern women are raised to know that it is rude and vulgar to discuss either, including money, in mixed company. I am a southern woman. I won't be provoked. Knowing when to keep your mouth shut is a sign of strength not weakness. 14. No I am not in a bad mood this morning. I am just cleaning house and putting to rest all of the pieces and parts labled "draft". Sometimes some things just need to be said. Let this be another 14 things about me you probably didn't know.