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Same song and dance. J. is dropped off, I get her fed and ready, then we are off to school after we call Steve and have good mornings. After I dropped J. off at school, I kissed her sweet face and told her we would see her Sunday afternoon. Since Monday is a holiday Steve get's that day with J. and we will take her to school Tuesday morning. I am leaving the school. I make the right turn onto Prince William Parkway. Guess who I pass? You know it. There is J.'s mom in her red truck with the "drgn ess" personal tag. Why in the hell can't she act like a mother and take her child to school if she is going to be with a couple miles of school when it is time to drop her child off? Why does she bring her here instead? One day she will regret not being a better mother than she is. Children are very loyal to their mother, even a bad mother but one day her daughter is going to start piecing everything together and the big picture is not going to be a pretty one. She gets no respect from me. I think she only cares about how she can use that child to get what she wants ... money. If she ever spends any of the child support directly on the child, I would be amazed. Other than 1 outfit this week, I have not since January seen her with anything her mother bought. Most of the clothes she has been wearing to school are old and some have long since seen better days. The shoes she wears Steve's mom bought for her because her other ones where worn out and her mother had not replaced them. I would be ashamed. I know it hurts Steve to see it and hurts him very deeply. He pays alot of money in child support and sees little to no result. It also hurts his mother to see her oldest and only granddaughter not provided for by her mother in the means she has to do so. I have always done without or bought for myself last. I have always taken what I have and made sure my children had the clothing they needed and didn't walk around looking thrown away. I don't understand how a woman who calls herself a mother can be so selfish and not see her child needs things and not provide those things. It is a sad thing to see and out of my hands.

Steve took J. to school this morning then he was off to work. It was an uneventufl day. nothing out of the norm happened. One thought left over from yesterday. When his ex dropped J. off, it was with the understanding that we would be picking her up from school. The first thing she said was give me a hug, I won't see you till tomorrow afternoon. I honestly believe she was pulling the clothes stunt. She brought J. over, knowing it was Steve's night to have her and she didn't bother to bring the child any clothes. Nothing. Just J. and her book bag. Good thing I had one outfit from the other day in the washer and ironed it for her to wear. Who in their right mind takes a child off to spend the night and doesn't bring the first piece of clothing with them? I give up. I won't ever understand this woman ... not that I try very often unless it concerns J. I have to go to bed. I am sleepy.